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Right now I have around fifty asks concerning how to ask a POT for a gift for the first date. I will write about this in one post kinda quickly.

We all see the SB’s who get cash or gift for the first date. But the question is, how?
In all honesty I didn’t start getting gifts until I asked. I…


1. All Cosmetics Wholesale

This website is definitely the best when it comes to finding discounted makeup! They feature awesome high end brands including MAC, NARS, Dior, Too Faced, and YSL as well as drugstore brands we all love like Revlon, Maybelline, and Hard Candy. They also sell our favorite OPI and China Glaze nail polishes at discounted prices! If you want to save money on some amazing products, you should definitely give this site a visit. 

2. Xtras Online

This is a great website for discounted products all over the beauty spectrum- From high end makeup to department store perfumes! They also sell hair accessories and extensions as well as clothing. They also include a lolly-pop with each order as an extra sweet treat! 

3. Discount Cosmetics 4 U

This website is very similar to Xtras Online, however they do include some more high end brands. They also feature awesome drugstore brands like Rimmel and LO’real! 

4. Cosmetic America

This website features tons of high end brands like Chanel and Dior, and doesn’t offer makeup! They have a big selection of discounted skin care products for women and men; as well as fragrances. 


Of course with Ebay you need to be a lot more careful, however, it can be a great site to score some awesome (and legit) discounted cosmetics; as well as your beloved discontinued products! You can find some helpful tips on making sure you’re buying legitimate cosmetics off of Ebay, here

So I’ve been spending my morning messaging some men on SA. I’ve started looking into daddies in other states. Where I live you pretty much see men on here that make 100g a year. To me that’s not even close. I want that paper honey.


I’ve seen this question pop up a lot lately, with good reason, this is a tough one!

BUT one of the great things about being in these arrangements is learning how to speak up for yourself and go outside of your comfort zone to put yourself first, and this includes talking about allowance.


Anonymous Asked:
do you have any tips for someone thinking about becoming a sugar baby?

My answer:


Here are some links which have helped me learn to become a better sugar baby:

Those are just the posts I have saved on my blog. I’m sure more experienced SBs could teach you a lot more than I could, and I love catching up and reading on the #sugar baby tag on Tumblr just to get some new ideas.

Here are my own tips:

  • Be yourself. I know that the image of a sugar baby is classy, educated, confident, sexy, etc. but you need to add to that. You should already be all of those things, and if you aren’t you’d better act like it. Still, when I’m with Capt, I know that I can’t put up an act because he likes who I really am as well — nerdy, art-loving, passionate, funny, excitable, etc. And he loves to tell me that he loves it! In fact, I’ll take him to my favorite pizza place/bar or Chili’s to get one of their delicious molten cakes because that’s what I like in addition to 5 star restaurants.
  • Know what you are worth. You’re priceless, but how much does a man need to pay for you to give him the time of day? Set your allowance and stick with it; never lower it for anyone. Accept gifts with a smile and thank you.
  • Stay sane. You’ll most likely be balancing two lives here: your sugar baby life and your persona life. Make sure you don’t get the two mixed up. Give your friends gifts but don’t disclose where you’re getting the money unless you’re absolutely certain you can trust them with that information. You need to find a balance between being a SB and being your regular self (student? girlfriend?)
  • Take care of yourself. Get your hair done, nails done, go to spas, exercise, go shopping… Your sugar daddy will see that you take care of yourself and will want to spoil you. Be good to your body and it will all pay back in the end.
  • Know your limit. Set your rules. It’s okay to ask for a platonic relationship — I know those are rare, but they can be done if you find the right person. Don’t ever lower your standards. Like I said before, stick to your allowance and even ask or accept more if you feel like it. Don’t let a man take you home on the first date or even the tenth date unless you’re okay with it. Don’t let him give you too many drinks at dinner. Don’t let him get away with missing your allowance. Don’t pick up too many SDs at once unless you know you can juggle multiple relationships.
  • Love your Sugar Daddy. We want to act so high and mighty when we write on Tumblr about other men, and I mean, that’s true. They want us enough to hand over thousands of dollars for our company! But you’ll never be able to keep a sugar daddy if you leave him feeling like an ATM. Invest in him yourself by keeping up with him and letting him know how you are, planning dates, dressing up, sending sweet messages, and personally taking an interest in his life so that he feels like a human being as well.
  • SPEND YOUR MONEY WISELY. It’ll be a thrill the first time you get your allowance, but never expect it to be endless! Save some, pay your bills, your gas, etc. and then keep a little for fun. What will you do in between sugar daddies, or when you finally quit? Have a Plan B!

Best of luck to you in the bowl, girl!


Here is a list of my tips and advice pages on my website. It is still in construction and I try to put as much helpful information on my blog as possible. PLEASE read through my blog tips before sending an ask and I would love to get feedback on how to improve it!

What Is A Sugar Baby

Sugar Baby Acronyms and Dictionary

Where To Find A Sugar Daddy

Creating A Profile

First Meeting

The Allowance Talk

I’m Not Attracted To My Sugar Daddy

The Stress Game

Sugar Baby With A Baby

Plus Size Sugar Baby

The Married Sugar Daddy: Guide To Being The Other Woman



When I first started out in the bowl, I was eager and excited to see money flowing in. Don’t get me wrong, when I first started I was hustling like crazy and within two months I managed to make around seven grand. It was insane, I was living the life and of course I spent it all on clothing and…


I feel like I am making a series out of these, haha, but they are fun! Men want the best, especially rich men, they think they can buy gold with green. They cannot, there money couldn’t buy the most decadent of women on Earth and that is why we hold the power. But, first you have to catch the fish…


One of the things I’ve noticed since I started sugaring is how your expectations changes. Well more accurately how your wants and “needs” change. A few years ago, before sugaring, I saved up for things like a $300 watch. And thought that was a big spend. Now I’m used to my SD paying that much for…


I’ve seen this question pop up a lot lately, with good reason, this is a tough one!

BUT one of the great things about being in these arrangements is learning how to speak up for yourself and go outside of your comfort zone to put yourself first, and this includes talking about allowance.


A twenty-one year old breaking into sugar

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